Becoming a cuckold

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in. We thought that it would be interesting to hear my version of the same events. You can judge for yourself which is closer to reality. Yes, I was responsible for my husband becoming a cuckold o r cuck. We met in college and married right after graduation. As I will explain in more detail, my husband grew up in a single mother household with a dominating mother who sexually abused him.

Also, I grew up in a household with two parents but with a dominating mother. We married in an era where pre-marital sex was uncommon. My husband was a premature baby in an era when it was uncommon; his sexual organs never fully developed.

Becoming a cuckold

He has a small penis 3 inches flaccid, but 5inches erect. I learned about this only much later through therapy. Also, my husband has very little body hair. The small penis, small frame, and lack of body hair made him the butt of jokes in high school showers which were very communal in our becoming a cuckold. Again, I learned this only many years later.

When my husband is able to get an erection, he ejaculates very quickly, either spontaneously or just after entering me. Usually, he ejaculates before getting erect. Psychologically, my husband is introverted and reserved, but also tender and loving. I am outgoing and aggressive, like my mother. Yes, you could say that I married my father. But, growing up, I never thought of myself as a sexual person. Finally, much later I discovered my husband was bi-sexual and also attracted to men.

I only learned about this many years later while we were in therapy. However, I do not believe it was really a rape.

Becoming a cuckold

I believe it was consensual. The key takeaway is that my husband was attracted to strong men with large endowments and he becomes very docile and submissive. From a gay standpoint, he was a bottom. I have to protect him from dominant men that might abuse him.

After graduation, my husband went to Law School full time and I went to work in a bank. I advanced quickly and started to becoming a cuckold frequently. On one of the work trips, after a little too much to drink, I had a one-night stand with a married colleague. I was not drunk, but a little tipsy. He was very different from my husband: confident, sexually experienced, and well-equipped.

I had an orgasm for the first time in my life and discovered the excitement and joy of sexual intercourse. It was fine with me, since I had no plans to leave my husband. I was wracked by guilt but I enjoyed the sex. I tried to coach my husband to be a better lover. It was a complete flop. I tried to teach him about foreplay but he would cum almost immediately. Eventually I told him about the other man. Admittedly, it was selfish on my part. Lets call the other man by the name of Jim.

Since Jim was married, we needed a place to meet. It was easier to be transparent with my husband and use our apartment. When I told my husband, I think he felt humiliated, but he was also turned on by Jim. I attempted to get him to leave when Jim came over, but he insisted upon staying. We had a small one bedroom and one bathroom apartment. We only had one bathroom and it was visible from the couch. After we were finished, Jim usually had to use the bathroom to urinate and wash up.

Apparently, my husband eagerly watched him urinating. Jim told me about it, but he clearly enjoyed showing off to my husband. My husband would attend our office parties for spouses which brought him into contact with Jim and his spouse. I becoming a cuckold my husband might feel humiliated in the presence of Jim, but he seemed to enjoy it. In fact, to my shock, my husband suggested dinner with Jim and his wife. I attempt to help my husband deal with his sexual feelings. I had figured out the problem, and would assist him in masturbating.

Once he got an erection, he orgasmed immediately and spontaneously. Most often, he orgasmed before getting erect. Funnily, he had an enormous amount of semen. He told me that he eagerly awaited our sexual sessions.

Becoming a cuckold

He could concentrate on his own pleasure rubbing against my stomach. My husband is a tender loving person, so I was happy to play this game — especially because I had Jim for sex. I supposed they could be called tease and denial. I also began, innocently, to incorporate Jim into our games. My husband was captivated by Jim, and Jim seem to enjoy being the dominant personality.

Becoming a cuckold

It was very subtle, but it was always present among us. By taking possession of me, Jim became the alpha male. Slowly, I recognized that my becoming a cuckold enjoyed this relationship and encouraged it. He suggested dinner with all three of us. When we sat down, my husband would sit opposite Jim and me. Jim enjoyed asserting his superiority so he would pull me close to him; put his arm around me. Jim would touch my hand when he was making a point.

My husband always paid the bill. Sometimes, we would leave and tell my husband not to come back to our apartment for two hours. My husband seemed to enjoy it. She called my husband and asked him to meet for coffee. During their coffee meeting, she berated him and humiliated him. Shortly thereafter Jim transferred to another office of our company in a different city on the East Coast. Now I had to find a replacement lover. Get started. Open in app. Frank Scott. in Get started.

Becoming a cuckold

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